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You know something
needs to change.

Maybe it's the Sunday night dread, people who frustrate you daily, or the voice that keeps telling you something's wrong with you. Or maybe it's just the feeling you've been moving through your life without quite being in it.

You want more, and you're done talking yourself out of it.

No pitch. Tell me what’s going on. I’ll tell you if I can help.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"After hiring Adi, I couldn't sleep... from excitement. I'd waited years to free myself, and thought I was playing the game, when all I was doing was playing myself. Adi helped me realize that, then change it. Five months later, I walked into my old company's holiday party—the CEO saw my face and handed me the mic. No words. He just knew.”

— Michael Martin
Professional Model & Business Owner

Is this you?

Career. Leadership. Relationships. Confidence. Money. Whatever it is, we own it.

Internally:

  • You got what you were supposed to want, but it isn't doing it for you.

  • You second-guess everything. It takes five drafts to send an email.

  • You replay the same conversations in your head for days.

  • You stay only because the alternative might be worse.

  • You don't feel seen — really seen — and understood by the people in

    your life.

  • You come home wiped out and wonder — is this it?

Externally:

  • If you want it done right, you have to do it yourself.

  • You're doing all the work. And you're still the one being questioned.

  • You say no, but they keep pushing, like "no" is up for discussion.

  • You're always the one keeping the peace, and you're exhausted.

  • You thank them for "trusting you" while you both know they don't.

  • You do great with prep, but the moment eyes are on you, you choke.

What that looks like in real life.

  • An IT director facing a layoff became a CIO.

  • A 58-year-old immigrant came out.

  • A "gold-handcuffed" attorney built a profitable business in 8 months.

  • An investor stood up to her abusive family.

  • An intern laid off by a top consulting firm gets hired by top tech.

  • A college dean doubled her salary.

  • A Fortune 500 CFO stopped dreading every executive meeting.

  • An ex-Navy engineer got 2 promotions and 4 raises in three years.

  • A senior lab scientist moved across the country and started her travel business.

  • A 68-year-old real estate agent felt fully himself for the first time in his life.

  • A nonprofit director quit after 25 years and was signed by a modeling agency 4 months later.

You stop circling the same problems, and start making the decisions and the changes you've been putting off. Your life starts matching who you are.

I don't fix you.
I introduce you to yourself.

You may come in wanting a new job, a better relationship, or a team that follows you. You'll leave with something you didn't know was missing.

I'll see you exactly as you are, tell you the truth no matter how hard, and stay with you as long as it takes. We can go from the biggest question about your life to the exact words to use in a hard conversation, in the same call.

I name the thing you're feeling but can't put your finger on. I spot the pattern before you finish describing the situation. And I don't let you gaslight yourself.

Clients in their own words.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"My greatest fear was that I would settle into the path of least resistance and become a supporting character in a large faceless corporation. Reaching out to Adi was answering my inner voice's call. Adi helped this Navy Officer get a 40% pay increase in 18 months. And that's just the outside part.

— Joshua Meeder
Systems Engineer Team Manager, SAIC
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Adi helped me through a horrible divorce, cross-country move, finding a new job, and rebuilding my life. I feel less alone, understood and empowered.”

Nathan, 41, Tucson

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"'What the hell does this kid know?' was my first thought. Turns out—A LOT. Two years later, I'm out of a 30-year loveless marriage, dating someone amazing, and finally building my business."

- Jackie, 65

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"I [became] more aware of how my feelings of worthiness and performance at work were passively sabotaging me. I also learned how to distinguish and split them apart, and [to] practice more self-love, self-care, and self-acceptance in order to heal.

Adi was like a neurosurgeon, getting into the deepest pockets of my psyche and describing the root cause with his unique ease, talent, skill, art, and humor."

— Irene Chaplyk
CLS Molecular Technologist, Pangea Lab
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I went from an overwhelmed, frustrated manager with active team resistance to a C-suite role in nine months. Adi helped me understand what I was doing and why, what my team needed from me, and how to deliver. And I did!”

Jessica, 43

No pitch. Tell me what’s going on. I’ll tell you if I can help.

How it works.

Cadence
Weekly, every other week, or as needed.

Style
You talk. I listen and ask questions. I push when you dodge. We decide what to do and how to do it, down to the exact words. Résumés, interview prep, salary negotiations, conversations at work and at home, presentations, emails, memos, content and copy. Then you follow through.

Method
Radical Ownership™: you stop outsourcing your life to fear, mood, and other people's reactions.

Steps
Book 15 minutes. We talk. If we jibe, we start.

If you're done pretending you're fine, we should talk.

No pitch. Tell me what’s going on. I’ll tell you if I can help.